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“I smoke because I am self-destructive!”
Most Smokers tend to think that they continue to smoke because they have a self-destructive attitude. However they are actually trying to get sick. Some people say that they are afraid of reaching old age. Others arrogantly vow to continue their habit until it kills them.
While most people do have emotional problems that in-turn lead to self-destructive behavior, I personally believe that the majority of smokers that harbor this attitude do not in this category. Most of them make statements like these to conceal their fears of not being able to quite cigarette smoking.
Over the past several years, I have found that many people who are ravaged by smoking related illnesses have visited smoking clinics. They often say that they have made many excuses and were shocked when they actually did become ill. Clinic participants that failed to state that they just didn’t care enough about themselves to give up cigarettes were unfortunately, later diagnosed with cancer. Wail others have had heart attacks, strokes or other circulatory conditions. Most were diagnosed with major breathing impairments related to emphysema. Not one of them ever thought enthusiastically, “It worked, it’s killing me!”.Most were normally upset, scared and depressed. Not only were they facing a potentially deadly condition, but they knew to a certain degree, that they were responsible for its occurrence.
This is an equally tragic situation that is experienced by the survivors of people who have died of smoking related illnesses. Most ex-smokers will go back to smoking through the encouragement of family and friends. This usually happens to someone who is disease free and quits to stay healthy. From the gate they are nervous and crabby (can you remember those days?). Pretty soon the spouse, and kids are saying, “If this is what you are like as a nonsmoker, for heaven’s sake, please smoke!” While at the time it might seem like a good idea at the time, think about how that relative feels when the smoker contracts cancer or has a heart attack and dies. The guilt can be tremendous.
Some of the beliefs or statements that are made by smokers might sound irrational, at time they can sound like they have a real death wish. More often than not, there is really nothing wrong with the person who is making this statement other than the affect that the drug is having on them. Fear of withdrawal or being unable to cope with life, without the aid of cigarettes results in a defense mechanism that justify’s the persons habit. Once the person gives up smoking these excuses vanish into thin air, and leave behind a person who is physically and psychologically healthier.














